Parents/Carers - FAQ's
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You can view the law around drugs via this website -
Change Grow Live offers support for adults affected by someone else's substance use. To find out more information, visit their website -
https://www.changegrowlive.org/alcohol-drug-behaviour-change-norfolk
Change Grow Live also offers online support for adults via their Facebook Group - www.facebook.com/groups/AOnorfolk
If anyone in your family is under 19 years old, they can receive support from Unity. A referral can be done via our contact page.
NO! We are a non-judgemental and confidential service.
We have a parent's support group where you can meet other parents in similar situations. Change Grow Live also offer support for adults affected by someone else's substance use - https://www.changegrowlive.org/alcohol-drug-behaviour-change-norfolk
View our tips and tricks page on how to speak with your child about their drug use.
There are multiple reasons why your child may take drugs. Here are some examples:
- Coping mechanism for other difficulties they are having such as poor mental health.
- Curious about them
- To experiment – some people are just curious and want to see the impact it has on them.
- Enjoy taking them – to have fun, socialise and relax.
- Easy to obtain
- To fit in with friends or feeling under pressure to do so
If you go to our resources page, you can see a range of website that give you detailed information about different drugs.
It can be challenging recognising if your child needs support. The signs may vary depending on the substance and the individual. Here are some common indicators that may suggest a problem:
- Changes in Behaviour: sudden and significant changes in behaviour, such as increased secrecy, aggression, or withdrawal from family and friends.
- Frequent hangovers or withdrawal symptoms: Experiencing frequent hangovers or symptoms of withdrawal when not using the substance.
- Police involvement: Involvement in legal issues related to drugs or alcohol, such as possession charges.
- Drug or Alcohol Paraphernalia finding drug-related items such as pipes, syringes or empty bottles in their possessions.
- Missing prescription or Over-the-counter medications.
- Frequent Lying and Secrecy: An increase in dishonesty, and secrecy about their whereabouts.
- Lack of interest in Personal appearance: poor personal hygiene, dishevelled appearance, or lack of concern for how they look.
- Financial issues: Unexplained or sudden financial problems, frequently asking for money, or stealing to support the habit.
- Emotional changes: Mood swings, irritability, anxiety, depression, or noticeable changes in personality.
- Changes in social circle: a new group of friends who are known to use drugs or alcohol.
- A drop in grades, absenteeism, or a lack of interest in previously enjoyed activities.
- Physical signs – bloodshot eyes, dilated, or constricted pupils, frequent nosebleeds, and unexplained marks or bruises.